Ok, I have a boyfriend and i love him he's my best friend :) but I think i still have feelings for my ex, i tend to gravitate towards him and seems to do the same. but my current boyfriend and my ex happen to be best friends. Whaaaat should i do :/
That is a sticky situation, I’ve helped situations out like this before but i haven’t met any that are still best friends. You can ignore your ex until you’re over him. It’s not good if you still have feelings for your ex if you already have a new bf. Do things that won’t have you falling for him. It’ll get messy if you leave your boyfriend for your ex(his bestfriend) not saying you will, just putting it out there. Usually there’s a guy code when getting with someone’s ex because of complicated situations like this, especially when they’re bestfriends.
Nice blog, i like it! I'm not in a relationship right now, but I'm pretty close id say. The thing is, the guy I like talks to me and sits near me all the time at church, but when we're at school he doesnt say a word, he just stares at me and looks away. All the signs are there that he likes me, even my friends have noticed...I just dont get why he wont talk to me at school. Is he embarrassed, am I not good enough to be seen in front of our schoolmates together? What do I do? /:
Thank you. It seems like he likes you, maybe he’s just shy; at church it’s usually the same people so it’s more comfortable. Don’t think so negative because he doesn’t seem to talk to you at school. I think you should go talk to him, walk up & start a conversation. Sometimes, guys are too afraid to make the first move.
Thank you<3 your blog is just the same.
Thank you, i love your blog as well. :)
ex fucked me over unexpectedly, acted like an ass. he was my bestfriend and knows everything about me and all my secrets. now he says he realized what he's missing now that it's gone. he says he doesn't know for sure if he wants to get back together but is ridiculously nice and supportive about anything i do or say. i can't imagine opening up to any other guy about things that i do with him and i can already feel myself falling for him again, he is going to screw me over again. now what?
Sometimes it takes losing something to realize what you have & that’s happened to him. Although if he realized how much you mean to him, getting back with you shouldn’t be a question to whether he’s sure or not. If he really wanted to, he would do whatever it takes. It’s good that he’s nice & supports you in every way. It is hard to open up to another guy, especially if you two have been together for a while or through a lot. When people say they’re falling for them again, it’s usually because they never fell out of love. People make mistakes, everyone deserves a second chance; although if he’s done this multiple times to the point where it becomes a routine for you guys; it’ll probably be best if you let him go. (Only if he’s done it multiple times, if not. You’re good.) The desicion is up to you, i’m just here to give you advice on what you can do. I hope everything goes well.
Piece of advice
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
